2/27/10

It is not often that I feel compelled to address an answer you've given
in response to the woman whose husband demands sex 1-2x a day, wants to
use porn and insists on oral sex (February newsletter).
First of all, this man is in sinful sexual addiction which drives him to
use his wife and anything else he choses to satisfy his drive. May I
suggest Pure Life Ministries (purelifeministries.org) as a proven
resource for Bible based help for sex addiction. They offer help for
the spouse as well. My heart goes out to this woman having had personal
experience in this very situation. Your advice, while well intended,
could only leave her without hope in that she stated she had already
tried what you suggested. Sex addiction is harder to break and
overcome than even an occult involvement. BUT, in Christ, with help
from experts in sex addiction, Bible and prayer commitment and
accountability, freedom can and will come to those who will bow the knee
and seek healing and restoration no matter the cost.

I do appreciate all you do for the cause of Christ.

Serving Him with you